I don't think leaving the girls is ever going to be easy. I think it will get easier each time but never easy. I dropped the girls off at their grandparents and drove away with only a few tears. I rode with the windows down blasting the radio and singing as loudly as I could. The sun beaming down while I rolled my arm with the wind. Here lately Teagan doesn't really like the windows down because her hair blows in her face so windows down is a treat for me. Especially on a sunny day.
When I got home I jumped in the shower but not before turning the monitor off. I enjoyed a shower, knowing there wouldn't be somebody needing immediate attention the second my foot hit the rug. I blow dried my hair and curled it. I spent a few minutes picking out my outfit (well, like 30 and a few txt messages/sent pics for opinions) and then got ready, slowly and thoughtfully.
Josh and I enjoyed a nice evening. We called the girls on the road to tell them "night-night" and then we were wrapped up in nothing but each other the rest of the night.
When we got home I thought I would probably cry like I'd done any other time we'd left the girls over night (you know, the whole two times) but I didn't. I did, however, go stand in each of their rooms for a minute. I stood there and thought about them, and prayed for them each individually. I knew they were in very capable hands. I knew that their grandparents were loving them with an intensity that almost matched mine and Josh's. All was well. Easier but not easy. Never easy.
I'm not a mother, but I could only imagine how hard it is to leave them!
ReplyDeleteIts hard for me to leave my only baby and he's just a dog! Ha!
I bet you got lots of extra cuddles when you picked up your sweet girls!
-Charlee