We're still in the midst of this torrential storm a lot of people, including us, call Life. Slowly, but surely, we are getting into a groove. Do focus on the word slowly though.
In the last few weeks we have transitioned into being a single income family, mommy being a full time grad student, potty training, crawling and a few odds and ends thrown into the mix. I have been learning a lot through this transitioning time though. It helps me to keep my head on my shoulders when I remember that. Sometimes it's easier said than done.
I am extremely lucky and blessed to have the support system I do. Whether it be my parents who pick up the girls and bring them to our house at least one day a week or Josh's parents who watch the girls sometimes on Saturdays or my family and friends who I know are thinking and praying for us once or more a day.
The Lord has blessed me with a strength that has surpassed any I've felt in the past and I am realizing He absolutely will not give me more than I can handle...even when I think He does.
My husband is a great man. He has had to take on a lot of extra responsibilities with me in grad school and grad school only. (Yes, I already knew this already, but he proves it more every day.)
Time management skills. I'm still working on this but it's getting easier. We've got a daily chore chart for the big stuff and with the girls leaving so early with Josh in the morning I am able to get things done (even a shower! EVERY SINGLE DAY!!! haha, Mommy joke) before I head in for my internship or school. When I get stuff done in the mornings it gives me time to be with my family in the evenings until the girls go to bed. I told Josh when we started that I was not going to give up my family just to go to grad school and so far I have pretty much been able to stick by that statement.
My professors are not out to make my life miserable. So far, they have been amazing and I can't complain. Some of the stuff we're doing is challenging and has catapulted me outside my comfort zone but I feel like I came into it expecting that.
I continue to try and remember the positive things that are coming out of this. I try and remember to stay in each moment instead of thinking of all the things that need to be done. I try not to get overwhelmed and allow myself a good cry when I feel the need. Nobody ever said this was going to be easy. Like we were teaching Teagan tonight- nothing worth having is really supposed to be easy. Perseverance is key. I am trying to practice what we're preaching because once again, actions are going to speak louder than words.
What amazing and scary changes recently Rici... but you are going to soar right through it all.
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